Hi Guys
Its been days i have written my last blog .With this blog i am starting "Love and Talkies" which is meant for the discussions about Love and its side effects.:)
I have seen many different love stories in real life of real people but there is something about love which keeps me confused.In this post i would love to share some of the real love stories and similarities between them.
thanks to bollywood most of the people have a perception that boy meets girl , falls in love and stay happy ever after.But to the surprise in 90%of the love stories i have seen and observed this bollywood perception has been overruled .
most of the couple understand the meaning of love or they tend to follow the trend by creating a illusion of love.In our Indian society most of the guys fall in love very easily,they say love words with ease ,they play the role very filmish style but eventually 70% of them backs out when their family says no or when they find someone better to love.where as in for girls 70% of them will not back out if she is in love or thinks she is in love with the guy.
I believe till the day a couple is not married there are chances of break up.I all share a small story to prove the same.
There was a couple i knew 6 years back in my college days.guy had lost his parents and it was only the girl he actually trusted and loved.where as for girl she dint had her dad and being with the guy and spending time eventually saved her fights from her mother.with time they shifted together and started living like a household.managing each and everything together ,having fun anyone could have believed they were soul mates.
there were days when those guys used to speak with their eyes ,one of them will make a gesture and the other one will catch whats with it.I remember their relation was more than 4 years ,they never planned to marry cauz i think they thought they were married already.i mean if a girl is in live in with a guy for more than 3 years what else will u call it.
Suddenly things changed between them she fell for another guy in her office and she dumped him.It came to us friends as a surprise that she could actually do that.the guy got it eventually and moved on.when i now speak to him regarding the same he doesn't believe in love thanks to that girl.
As we know not all love stories have a sad endings.there is one of my friends who is a example of successful love marriage ,he is happily married from last 2 years.one fine day i asked him wats love.
he replied with a smile "love is a game of hearts which is played by brain to win"..
With all people having different opinions on love ,what i have learned so far will just make me say u should never stop loving ,fall in love, if u like someone go for it..
cauz u l only learn by ur own mistakes..:)
